That is the question. Tears or no tears?
There are so many changes happening in life right now for all of us. Some changes seem earth shattering, can we overcome? Some are just your everyday life advancements. Some are just trivial. Yet all of these changes tend to bring us some level of emotion. To cry or not to cry?
My husband will tell you that I can cry if there is a remainder in long division. It's true. Many do not realize this about me. I often save my tears for weddings, funerals and moments behind the bathroom door.
Until recently...
Now, I just let them rip! It has occurred to me that tears are cleansing. They calm the waves of the waters. They come at times of fear, and joy, and sadness and overwhelming pride. They still come often in the quiet time, but it really is OK.
Tears are not the sign of weakness I once thought. They are a sign that I am human. I have feelings, I can be hurt, angered, overjoyed... I can feel.
Although I may prefer not to break down in Walmart, it still could happen. Simply reading a card I intend to purchase or the sight of a ribbon of hope... yup, it could happen.
I encourage you to feel. If that brings you to tears as well, savor them. Cleanse your soul and move on. Feel Strong.
